Archive for April, 2009

Real Men Don’t Plan Weddings

Sunday, April 26th, 2009
Scot McKay asked:




Most of you know that my podcast co-host, best friend and overall “main squeeze” Emily and I are getting married in December. I couldn’t be a happier guy about that. After all, she’s a fantastic woman. This means, of course, we’ve spent much of the last month since our engagement (which happened during “X & Y On The Fly” podcast episode 11) planning our wedding and everything associated with it. Over the course of that relatively brief period of time, I’ve already come to a profound conclusion.

Real men don’t plan weddings.

Don’t get me wrong. I am not saying that real men don’t get married. Quite the contrary. Most good men seek to find genuine love with one great woman sooner than later, and look forward to coming home to her every night. And that’s a great thing.

That said, however, I believe I’ve come up with a previously undetected reason why men seem to have trouble taking that step towards the “lifetime commitment” of marriage. Thousands (if not millions) of women everywhere have long wondered how a man can be so eager to have her around month after month without “popping the question”. Months can turn into years, and still no ring and no date.

Is it really that all of these men are “commitment phobes” who are looking for “better options”?

Possibly. But if that were the case, why would those same guys be spending so much time sitting around watching the tube and drinking beer instead of searching out “options”? It all just doesn’t add up, does it?

Well, ladies (and gentlemen), the sensible explanation for all of this is disarmingly simple, although most likely subliminal in the mind of every guy it affects.

It’s not that we’re afraid of marriage or commitment. It’s that we are utterly terrified of planning the wedding.

I first presented this groundbreaking hypothesis to Emily, and was met with skepticism. “Oh, c’mon. How can that be? Putting all of this together is exciting. Don’t you think it is fun?”

I responded simply. “I’d rather do sudoku puzzles.”

She looked at me in shock. After all, I’d famously rather do my taxes and / or watch paint dry than touch any blasted sudoku puzzle with a ten-foot pencil. At least tax returns involve number crunching that is actually necessary and may result in a refund check.

“Seriously…”, I elaborated, “…name one guy you’ve ever known who was excited about planning his wedding.”

She named a few. After brief consideration, I countered that those guys had to have been merely demonstrating “sympathy excitement”, which doesn’t count.

I therefore revised my challenge. “OK…well…short of anyone who is a clinically-problematic ‘control freak’, name one guy who ended up arranging all the details himself, according to his own thoughts and wishes.”

“Yeah, well…you’ve got me there.”, Emily retorted, punctuated with a snicker.

Really now. It’s a downright silly thought. What guy feels that passionately towards flowers, table settings, elaborate dresses and throwing social parties? Even if he did, there’s no way he could wrestle control of such from the bride while remaining engaged.

Exactly! Wedding ceremonies and receptions are all about the bride. I mean, the guy involved doesn’t even have a real title–he’s just there to “groom” the bride! Therefore, everything involved with planning such things is utterly feminine.

Us guys really find it all rather tedious. To us wedding planning is like one big, protracted trek to the mall for shoe shopping.

Oh sure. We go along when absolutely necessary to “show support” and to make sure “we approve”. But heaven help us if we didn’t “approve” of something along the way. It would mean being dragged to more prospective “settings” festooned with Gazebos and year-round Christmas lights. So the women…Emily included…typically get the rubber stamp from the “Groom”.

Guys like me would have been happy just to go to the JP and get on with it, maybe draining a few “cold ones” afterwards. Even when wrapped up in a more “formal” wedding, we all don’t want or need any elaborate consideration. Just rent me the same tux the other guys are wearing. No biggee.

Despite my ranting, all of this deep thought really has helped me put things into perspective and I accept my short-term lot in life gladly. I won’t begrudge the bride her wedding planning bliss one bit.

Here’s why.

For a woman, this really is her one chance (hopefully) to live out all of her fantasies associated with being a “Disney Princess” and throwing the big party to back it up.

Obviously, every business owner who ever touches a wedding already knows this. I’ve dealt with ten years’ worth of obnoxious, abrasive people in the last few weeks, all of whom clearly on the immediate defensive vis-

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How To Solve Sudoku Puzzles With Ease

Saturday, April 25th, 2009
J.J. Yong asked:




Almost everyone think that solving sudoku will take hours to finish. Actually, you can solve sudoku puzzles within few minutes – or even in few seconds. Time is common barrier for sudoku solvers. The big question arises from most of us – how do we solve it fast and with ease?

When we need an improvement on certain skills or activity, we need to practice. It is almost the same as doing exercises, it requires proper training including hectic schedule of non-resting training. But one good thing about sudoku, you do not need to stress yourself to finish all puzzles in one day.

Sudoku is a relaxing game and it certainly requires some skills to accomplish mind-challenging puzzles. Take sudoku as a “brain stimulator” that helps us to boost our IQ especially in improving our logical and analytical thinking.

Instant sudoku solving method can be done when you have positive attitude towards the game play. You have to be very determine when solving difficult problems. In the beginning, leisurely play sudoku puzzles without setting a time limit. Roughly estimate the time taken to solve one puzzle. When you play another puzzle, try to beat the previous time record. Set a goal for each puzzle. You have to be patient as improving process takes time. You will see results if you try harder.

Sudoku game is like a chess game. It involves strategy and knowledge to accomplish the solving task. You can it anywhere you like. It just involves paper and pen, which brings convenience to all of us. Free sudoku game is available in the newspaper, magazine and online. Internet surfers are able to download free sudoku softwares including sudoku puzzles generator and sudoku solver. You do not have to spend any cent to purchase sudoku since most of the puzzles are printable in pdf file format. Basically, you have no problems in getting puzzles for sudoku training.

Get yourself in sudoku forums to discuss sudoku solving techniques. You can find several interesting ways to complete the puzzles in short time. You can even make friends from the forum and share your experiences with them. Learning sudoku is reciprocal process – sharing tips on sudoku solving to others and getting information of sudoku from others.

After fulfilling the main tasks above, you will become more motivated to play sudoku with less difficulty and fast. Therefore, the route to become sudoku expert is likely reachable and achievable.

Tammy
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Top 10 Brain Enhancers

Tuesday, April 21st, 2009
Serj Sagan asked:




Perhaps you are getting older and are noticing a decline in your brain function; or you are a student preparing for a huge test; or you are just curious if there is anything you can do to enhance your brain function. Well the obvious answer is YES! We will discuss the top 10 things in no particular order.

We will start with sleep. Your brain needs a certain amount of time to rest in order to even begin functioning at its maximum capability. Think of it as hard drive that gets extremely fragmented in just one day of work, and if you don’t let it completely defrag, it’s just going to work slower the whole next day. So give your brain 8 hours to fully “defrag.”

One of the most important elements that the brain needs to function at its highest potential is oxygen. Spend 30 minutes doing cardiovascular exercises (running, biking, treadmill, etc.) and you will notice an amazing improvement in your brain function as your heart is able to distribute oxygen more easily throughout your whole body, including your brain, when you are cardio fit.

The food you eat is obviously important for your brain however which foods are best can sometimes be confusing. First one is wild caught fish; let me emphasize NOT farm raised but wild caught and even better sea fish such as salmon. Next are the two foods that will probably cause you to say huh? They are chocolate and coffee. Yes chocolate and coffee, BUT the chocolate has to be 100% organic, 75% cocoa bean or more, in other words very dark chocolate and the coffee has to be 100% organic freshly ground coffee. We need to emphasize that it must NOT have any preservatives and USDA organic is not good enough; it must be 100% organic. Other good brain foods are whole grain breads, eggs, fresh salads, and fruit; especially blueberry.

Supplements and drugs are somewhat controversial because of the possible side effects nevertheless this editorial would be incomplete without the mention of these. First is hgh, or human growth hormone. Once we get into our twenties our body’s natural production of hgh declines exponentially. As youngsters we are able to learn a new language, perform mathematical functions, memorize and many more brain intensive functions significantly easier than when we get into the later years, and research proves that hgh is the single most important determinant of this ability. HGH is the only one that can be taken naturally without the risk of side effects. Modafinil is a prescription only drug used to treat narcolepsy and other sleep disorders. Research shows that patients who use Modafinil show better memory retention as well as other increased brain function. Modafinil does carry with it some significant side effect concerns including death in case of overdose and addiction therefore it is something that should only be taken with caution and on rare occasion. Ritalin is another prescription only drug that is used primarily for ADHD and has very similar benefits and concerns as Modafinil.

Brain puzzles such as Sudoku, crosswords, chess and certain others are great ways to stimulate your brain function. These games or puzzles should be difficult enough to solve/beat to where it takes significant effort to do so. Where they are too easy or too hard will accomplish little in the way of brain stimulation, although too hard is better than too easy. Each type of puzzle tends to stimulate a different part of the brain, such as Sudoku is more mathematical and pattern based, crossword tends to stimulate the language and memory, while chess tends to stimulate the logical and strategic part. Therefore it is important to understand this when choosing your puzzle(s).

Learning something new may be one of the best ways to stimulate those who are past their school years. This something new should be something that you will enjoy learning otherwise it may do little in the way of stimulation. A new hobby is a great start. Learn how to make that patio you’ve been dreaming about for ages, and actually make it. Perhaps plan a trip to a country whose native language is not a language that you now speak. Then proceed to learn that language to near fluent status, perhaps make it even more motivational by making the trip a reward for learning the new language.

Music and brain stimulation remains somewhat of a controversial topic, however it is now widely accepted and confirmed by research that certain types of music will cause your brain to function at a different level. There is some new research of brain waves that especially confirms this. Classical music, especially by Mozart, is the current most widely accepted music for positive brain stimulation; although most if not all music stimulates the brain in one way or another. An even better approach here is to learn to play an instrument like the piano or the guitar. There is massive research that confirms that learning to play an instrument has amazing results on a person’s brain function in all areas of life. A note here to those who cannot stand to listen to classical music, avoid music that is too heavy or fast; soothing background music is best.

One of the easiest things you can do to stimulate your brain is reading. Reading provides one of the most positive stimulations to your brain. It doesn’t even matter so much what it is that you read. Written words that require to be read rather than listened to (audio books will not work) involves a very deep process that stimulates both sides of your brain. As good as reading is there is something, that once mastered, stimulates your brain even more. It is called speed reading. Before you dismiss this as something that’s too hard or not worth the time investment, consider this. What if your that huge client case you have to read or the biology homework that would take you two hours to read was cut down by FIVE or more times. That means two hours of reading your biology homework now only takes just a bit over TWENTY minutes. Just imagine what you could do with the extra time. Not only that but all of the stuff you just read in that twenty minutes you will remember better and be able to recall easier than if you spent two hours doing it. This is real and ANYONE can do it. It does require patience, practice and a proper guide, we recommend Breakthrough Rapid Reading. With this new found ability you will be drastically more productive but more important is your brain stimulation will go through the roof.

Spirituality is perhaps a generalized word for this area as this area deals with your internal thoughts and attitudes. This is more of a right brain stimulation area which means, knowledge, numbers and logic have nothing to do with it. Imagination is perhaps a better word; however it is too narrow to encompass this whole area. This area has to do with thinking and imagining about being on that wonderful vacation and not just thinking about it, but actually visualizing yourself seeing that waterfall, seeing how the water splashes into the pool, you standing there taking that picture. This also involves you evaluating yourself and your behavior and how it relates to society and/or your guide that keeps your grounded, such as your Bible. This is a newer area of study for much of the academic world and there is so very much information floating around about it that it would take many books to cover it all. We suggest taking the time to look more into stimulating this part of your brain as the benefits can be profound.

The last one to mention is memory exercises. There are several kinds of memory exercises and it is best to spend some time researching them online as there are many that can be beneficial. We will mention two. First take a dictionary and flip to a random page then scan to a word that you do not recognize then proceed to memorize the word and its meaning. Do this for three to five words every day. Second, search for “random word generator” online then choose one of the several free sites and generate 10 random words. Then take 60 seconds and try to memorize each of the random words. After the 60 seconds try to write down as many as you can remember. Once you can remember all 10 words, move up to 20 words, and so on.

There are actual competitions where people can remember 500 or more random words in 60 seconds of looking at them…now that’s an amazing memory. You can get there too; higher school grades, noticeably better work performance or just all around enhanced brain function are possible with these sometimes simple but amazing memory stimulating methods.

William
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The Establishment of Vatican City

Monday, April 20th, 2009
Brian Jones Jr. asked:




When was the Vatican built? Vatican City is a territory that is surrounded by walls. It can be found inside the city of Rome. The land area of the Vatican City is forty four hectares. There are eight hundred people living in the Vatican. It is in fact the smallest state in the whole world. Many people are interested to find out the answer to the question when was the Vatican built.

1. The first answer on the question when was the Vatican built can be discovered by studying the history of the city. History will tell us that it became a country in 1929.

2. The second answer on the question when was the Vatican built can be found by knowing that the Lateran Treaty made the statehood of Vatican legal and formal.

3. The third answer on the question when was the Vatican built can be learned by understanding what the Lateran Treaty is all about. Many years ago the pope ruled several towns in Italy. In the nineteenth century however it was taken by the ruling kingdom. The residence of the pope was later known as the Lateran Palace. Later on the Italian government seized more territories considered to be the pope’s. There was little resistance from the pope. Then in 1929 this dispute came to a close. A treaty detailing the division between the kingdom of Rome and the Vatican was laid out. Those who agreed on it were Benito Mussolini and Pietro Gasparri, the cardinal secretary at that time. The Vatican became independent from Rome.

4. The fourth answer to the question when was the Vatican built can be traced back to the time when the Pope and those subordinate to him decided not to leave the compound of the Vatican in 1890 when the Kingdom of Rome was asking them to do so. They maintained their residence there for a long time until the Lateran Treaty.

The pope in 1920s however expressed his feelings of being like a prisoner within a country. Many people at that time still recognized his power in the Catholic faith. Many ambassadors and other world leaders still came to see him and the government of Italy recognized this and let them visit the pope as well as the rest of the people in the Vatican. In the eighties the Italian government made changes in the treaty. They made these changes and Vatican was recognized as an important Roman place because it is the cradle of the Italy’s official religion.

Randall
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9 Ways to Have Smarter Kids

Sunday, April 19th, 2009
Edmund N Figueroa asked:




Having smart kids is the ideal of every parent. Many things are done by those parents in order to make their children smarter in school and in daily life. But sometimes, those parents find that their kids do not change.

Intelligence sometimes is influenced by genetic. It means that if the parents are smart, their kids will be smart as well. However, there are many things to do in order to make the kids smarter. In the following, the writer would give some ways to make the kids smarter.

Playing logical games

Logical games are games which need the strategy to finish them. The players have to think hard in order to finish and win the games. Chess, crosswords, and sudoku are the examples of logical games. These games are fun to be played. Besides, these games can improve the kids thinking. They make the kids try to solve a problem, and make a complicated decision.

Playing music

Playing music is not only fun but also stimulating the growing of the right brain. According to a research in Toronto University, the presence of the music subject in the school or in the house can give the contribution to the development of IQ of the kids. It will also increase academic performance of the kids. The longer time spend for playing music, the bigger effect that it is resulted.

The giving of breast milk

Breast milk is the basic food for the brain of the kids. Continually, researchers research the benefits of consuming breast milk for babies. The result shows that breast milk is very useful for babies. Kids who consume breast milk will have the higher intelligence level compared with those who do not consume the breast milk.

Making exercises as the habit

There is a big correlation between fitness and academic achievements among the elementary students. This is a research result which is done by the researchers in Illinois University. The result shows the fitter the bodies of the kids, the better the ability of the kids in achieving the material in the school. It means that you should always support the kids to do the exercise so that they will be fit all the time.

Avoiding junk food

You should decrease sugar, fat from the junk food and change it with nutritious food. This is very important for the growing of mentally of the kids and it is also functioned in the growing of motor skills of the kids ages 1-2 year old. For instance, kids need the iron to the growing of healthy brain tissue, kids who lack of iron will be slow in achieving the stimulation.

Developing curiosity

Experts say parents who show their curiosity to their kids will encourage them to look for new ideas. This can stimulate the kids to use their logic to think. Teach the kids new skills and education outside the home also can develop curiosity and intellectual of the kids.

Making reading as the habit

Reading is the easiest way to improve learning and cognitive development of the kids of all ages. This activity can be begun with often read the kids a bedtime story and frequently gives them a gift book that might attract their attention.

Teaching self-confidence

Parents should raise the spirit and optimism of the kids. This can be done by participating in team sports or social activities. These activities will help the kids increase their confidence among their friends.

Providing a healthy breakfast

The researchers convinced that eating a healthy breakfast will increase memory and concentration of the kids in the study. Kids who are not accustomed to have breakfast tend to be more irritable and less concentration on study time, while the kids who have breakfast will stay focused and moving during school hours.

Arturo
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